After a long and difficult journey, I’ve decided to stop identifying as non-binary and genderfluid.

The truth is… no matter how hard I tried to express that part of myself, I faced constant misgendering—especially from my parents, who still see me only as a girl. That persistent invalidation caused so much gender dysphoria, and I’ve been struggling silently for years.

Because of that, I’ve chosen to detransition and return to identifying as a cisgender female. It’s not a decision I made lightly, and I hope this doesn’t upset my friends, supporters, or anyone in the LGBT community. I still proudly identify as both bisexual and pansexual, and I will always support the queer community with all my heart.

I originally identified as non-binary and genderfluid because I genuinely felt that way inside and wanted to live that truth. But I’ve realized I need to prioritize what brings me peace—especially in both my online presence and my real life. For now, that means embracing my identity as a cis girl again.

My pronouns are She/Her, but They/Them is still okay too if that’s what you’re used to.

If you’re part of the LGBT community and reading this: I’m truly sorry if this hurts or confuses you. I hope you understand I did what I needed to for my mental well-being.

Thank you for supporting me through it all.